...and then she opened a can of Whoop-ass!

Everyone is a teacher.

Jesse watched us in sheer delight like we were a clip on Americas Funniest Videos as I ran laps behind my kindergartener who ran around in circles until I caught him and put his snowsuit and boots on.

Time Standing Still

I told my son, “You did not teach a good lesson today.”

The next day his jaw dropped when he saw Jesse's mother run laps behind him in the vestibule. Okay, I admit it, it was hilarious...until she stopped…and opened a can of whoop-ass.

Jesse froze. His coat, boots and mittens went on in record time while he was harshly reprimanded, grounded and lost privileges for a week.   

The guilt on my son's face left no question: he knew he taught a bad lesson. 

Either we lead like the Little Engine who DID or we follow like a caboose on someone else's train. Those are our choices. We are all teachers.

As parents of adults, we don't chase our children around the cavernous vestibule in our mind. We stand in the energy frequency of faith and love where we hold the high watch knowing our best seeds bear fruit for our children. This is the meaning of prayer. It is done.

No one said it was easy to stop running laps around the vestibule--ask the Little Engine how difficult it is to master the demons in our mind and have faith when the terrain is rough--but we know it's possible to apply the principles of constructive thought and release it into the flow of the highest knowing it is done.

Deah

Pain Management Puzzle

The Pain Predicament

During a TV interview, two healthy-looking ladies who were suffering with pain said their pain management classes taught that it was best not to show pain {no moaning, groaning or holding body parts}, and not to talk about pain with others unless saying “no” without explanation would hurt someone’s feelings or kill the relationship.

Is this pup in pain? A group photo in a magazine's tagline was, “Which person in the group photo (of smiley-faced people) has chronic pain?” The next line said, “They all do”, including the pup in the photo. The pain management group photo and Connie-Pup's photo demonstrate that how we look may not be an accurate way to judge pain.

People who put a smile on their face and do their best in spite of pain upgrade their own mental health and give their best to the world, however, pain is a relentless beast that will take them down the minute they get home. Therein lies the conundrum: doing our best, when our best changes from one second to the next, and putting on a happy face may result in being misunderstood and misjudged; not putting on a happy face is social suicide in a world where “can’t” is judged as a sharp-edged “won’t”.

When pain management and people management collide: we don’t want to hurt your feelings, we don’t want to lose your friendship, we don’t want to talk about how much pain we’re really in cause we’ll have an emotional melt-down, it's just that when we say we can’t it’s not about you, it’s not a choice, we just can’t right now. 

Stray Dog Unlikely Pain Management Guru

Connie, a 12-year old stray dog with advanced osteo-arthritis turned out to be a pain management guru.

When Connie's whining, sleeplessness, and need for attention was deemed to be separation anxiety and her personality and personal choices were viewed as attention getting, Connie was actually waging a war with pain that was more intense than her very loving caregivers knew.  

When Connie's meds were increased her face softened, her hair laid flatter, she slept peacefully, she whined less and her exuberant, people-loving, hard-working personality surged forth: she walked faster, she pulled on the leash, she walked further until she hurt herself, and then, and only then, did she lay down and rest. 

When her pain meds were decreased her pain increased, her sleep was interrupted, she wandered around the house at night, she whined more, was capable of less...you get the drift.

There was no psychological overlay to her behaviour: Connie was unaware of medications or dosage. It was simple: the worse she felt the less she could do, the better she felt the more she did-- she did what she loved until it hurt and then she rested. This is animal nature, it is our nature: when we feel better we do better. 

For those of us managing extreme pain, including mental/emotional pain, consider Connie's situation and stop beating yourself up. Walk a mile in Connie's paws, she does her best every day, when she can do more she does more and sometimes she endures great pain and long recovery because she simply must satisfy her spirit's need to do what she loves. 

That is the nature of pain management. While Connie's first choice is to follow her spirit and do what she loves, people take care of business until it takes them down and they leave the rest, messy house, dirty dishes, lost connections. Connie's caregivers and our families and friends help us when they ride along with the ups and downs of the pain wave and they do with us when we can, do for us when we can't and don't punish us when we shouldn't have done it but we did it anyways.

Stuff Happens. Seriously.

        Stuff happens. Not just to you or to me, but to everyone. It's the human condition.

         People get sick, they get injured, they lose their jobs and loved ones, they have breakdowns and crisis. When it hits the fan it doesn't just affect part of us, it affects the wholeness of us and we need a holistic healing response.

          When things happen and we really need to heal  or to have things change in a big way, let's face it, there may be a lot we don't control. The thing we do control is what we think, how we respond & what we do to improve the situation. The Universe does its part, what we think and do is our part.

         When I am blessed to be part of someone's holistic healing journey, I put my 22 years of Reiki and Energy Medicine training coupled with eight years of New Thought & Affirmative Prayer training to work.
         Reiki, even at a great distance, is intelligent energy which penetrates the human energy field and body using ancient symbols and energy vibrations that shift the constructs of disease and distress holistically to promote healing and make good things happen.
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Spring Cleaning your Energy Field

The "I don't wanna's", the "not nows", the "I'll do it laters", the laziness, procrastination, passing it off, or plain old just not doing it that is intended to save energy and effort in the moment actually drains energy  like a gigantic tornado sucking the life out of you and everyone around you.

Everyone and everything in your environment either contributes to or contaminates your energy field.

Boxes and bags of unused clothing, shoes, memorabilia, dirty dishes and laundry, unnecessary clutter, incomplete projects, things that need to be repaired or replaced, neglected relationships, indecision, unexpressed dreams, suck people dry. When relationships and things deteriorate it multiplies energy loss and increases the amount of energy required to correct the matter. Things done improperly or left un-done drain our energy.

The price of procrastination is LIFE.       Your life.

Spring cleaning your space makes a world of difference to your energy field. Releasing old stuff cleanses your energy field, and true to the law of attraction, it opens your life to attract the new and better life you are ready for now.

To maximize your energy and effort: Leave it better than you found it.

How Reiki or Energy Medicine Works with Mental Health

Healthy Thought Creation

Although the "thinker" is perfect, thoughts can be healthy or unhealthy.  Habitual thoughts have incredibly powerful positive or negative charges. Their cumulative affects produce massive changes in the energy field, the body's chemistry, and the conditions of people's lives. The environment literally attunes to a  person's habitual thoughts.

If "thoughts are things" as Ernest Holmes believed, imagine if your habitual thoughts became matter and formed into the experiences and circumstances of your life.

In an energy treatment, thoughts are recognized as solid pieces of matter in the energy field. Negative thought patterns attract negative experiences. Removing  unwanted energy creates space which fills with healing energy and this allows positive thoughts to pour in.  Sounds wacky, but energy techniques help people.

Mental health care is a complex health matter, nothing overrides the need for proper assessment, medical, psychological and psychiatric care and following their recommendations. If you are interested in how energy treatment can compliment your current health program, please contact me.

There is always hope for people suffering with depression or mental health challenges. When people reach out for help, someone somewhere will be there, there is unlimited access to connect with people who care.  

Blessings,
Deah

Love

One people. One spirit, one spiritual idea. 

One language. 

One creation.

That creation is love.

Eye to eye. See.  

Heart to heart. Know.

Give. 

One movement. 

One moment. 

That moment is now.

Do.

One reality.

That reality is love.

Do only this.

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Crocodile in Canada

We took a bag of bread for my 3-year-old grand-daughter to feed the baby ducks, geese and other birds that hatch every spring in a small lake in the middle of the city. 

When we got to the shore we saw a crocodile floating in the water. 

There are no crocs in Canadian water,  it 's too cold. Maybe a baby croc that was let loose in spring could survive--even thrive--in Canada in the the warm spring and summer water. Regardless how it got there, there was a croc in the lake.

Oblivious to the potential danger of a hungry crocodile on the prowl, my grand-daughter ran a few meters down the shore. Pumped up with adrenaline, poised for a rescue like a pride of lions, our eyes darted back and forth between the crocodile and my granddaughter. 

Faced with facts, our minds made up a story, formulated a belief and then we acted as though it was true. We were ready to croc-wrangle to protect our little girl at all costs.

That's how false beliefs are created. We all do it.

We examined the facts. The "croc" didn't move, it stayed still like a plastic toy tethered in place in the lake and we knew it was fake. Our false beliefs dissolved and, feeling more than a little stupid, we refocused on feeding baby birds.

Beliefs, including false beliefs, broadcast what our subconscious mind believes we are worthy of to the universe, this creates a strong magnetic loop and we attract it. Beliefs govern the volume of good we can accept, claim and manifest in our lives. The universe does not play tit-for-tat, it matches the essence of our beliefs for good and for bad.  Can't, never, always and strong emotions such as fear or anger attracts something to be afraid of, something to be mad about.  Positive beliefs and emotions such as confidence attracts success, love and joy.  

The realm of possibility is both infinite and impersonal. Every experience exists for each person, our beliefs filter what we attract and experience.

I am a work in progress, too. I appreciated the croc hoax. It highlighted the need for me to constantly examine the facts, recognize the stories I make up, recognize my beliefs, release what isn't true, let go of beliefs that no longer serve me and consciously re-choose New Thoughts and new beliefs that align with what I want to create.

Sometimes pain, feeling hopeless, or experiencing depression stemming from actual events, circumstances and facts leads to false beliefs that devastate a person's spirit and lead them to commit suicide. I don't have my poop in a group all the time either, I've been there, if you are searching the internet for help I am here for you.

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Vibration of URGH!

I was cranky yesterday.  I detest vibrating at the level of URGH! 

While I was living in a bubble of chaos, I felt hurt and offended. My untamed thoughts created a story about poor me, which created a brew of unpleasant emotions for me to experience. It coloured my perception,  the word "never"  popped into my vocabulary, my energy vibration tanked to a level of disappointment, which embarrassingly equals ingratitude, and I lived in a bubble of victim consciousness for a few hours...oh poor me!

When I was drowning in raw emotion and thrashing to grab onto thoughts that would rescue me from my self-defeating predicament, a friend's concern and my concern that my yikkie disposition was hurting my friend provided a lifeline that popped me out my mental mess part way through the day.

The vibration of love changed everything. It always does.

I learned a lot

Falling out of contact with gratitude for a few hours disconnected me from joy. Sounds elementary, and in theory it is--the experience of falling from joy into disappointment and coming back into gratitude and joy was profound.

Emotions, and the thoughts that create emotions, create a field of POTENTIAL. The vibration of URGH and disappointment result in words like "never and always". This energy vibration's low potential can only attract experiences to be disappointed about and ungrateful for.

Needless to say, the thoughts and emotions that result in vibrating at the level of love and joy creates a field of POTENTIAL that contains unlimited experiences of love and joy to be grateful for.

This unpleasant experience underlines the necessity of using gratitude as a spiritual tool to lift our vibration into the field of potential called JOY and LOVE. 

Imagine that! 

Energy Medicine, when applied to a person's energy field, automatically raises the person's energy vibration into the realm of higher quality experiences. That is the whole point of Energy Medicine. If I can help you with a bit of distance Energy Rx please contact me via email.

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Energy Block

When energy, the life force, doesn’t flow through the energy field and body of a person, plant or animal at the vibrational essence from which it was created, it creates a block or void that allows illness or negativity to occur.

Positive change in the energy field, referred to as ‘healing’, has the potential to transform an individual and his or her life.

During the energy treatment blocked (negative) energy is removed, energy pathways are straightened, the individual’s energy field is attuned to Source energy and, like a quantum leap, time collapses. Sometimes changing the frequency of the energy field creates instant health changes, more often it causes the energy field to mysteriously attract healing elements and repel harmful elements. New information, new opportunities, unexpected money, new tools, new medications, new people with the medical, psychological, or holistic knowledge appear out of the blue to advance an individual’s healing. When the energy field repulses it exposes, breaks down and releases negative circumstances—this may include negative people, relationships, locations, jobs, etc.


Energy work always refers to spiritual advancement on a higher plane, this may or may not manifest as change in the physical realm. Among an abundance of testimonials of fabulous physical changes, energy work also supports individuals preparing for the afterlife.


My gift is willingness. Your highest essence governs the outcome.


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Lost Causes, Hopeless Cases, Utterly Hopeless Situations

If you have a lost cause, a hopeless case, an utterly hopeless situation and you’ve tried everything, please contact me and I will Distance Reiki you every day. I can’t promise anything except that I will hold a miraculous result in mind and I will Distance Reiki every day.


Reiki is not always straightforward. It shifts energy in, around and through the person receiving Reiki. It affects everyone, everything, and every circumstance connected to the person.

Everything in the universe is connected visibly or invisibly. Some connections are close in proximity, some connections have many conjunctions between, some are on different plains or different wavelengths and it takes time to bring them together.

When it seems nothing is happening, trust that it is. Reiki breaks negative connections and fosters positive connections. Although spontaneous healings do occur during Reiki treatment, sometimes it takes time to shift enough energy to bring the components of healing together.

Everything that happens after Reiki treatment that failed to occur before Reiki treatment demonstrates Reiki’s efficacy. Reiki works invisibly and predictably like the law of gravity. Chance, overhearing, word of mouth, following your intuition and saying YES to what is are all essential tools of Reiki.

In response for Distance Reiki, instead of money, please provide a short testimonial when your situation improves. Thank you.

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Are you Ready for Reiki?

A few weeks ago the 400th person requested daily Distance Reiki. These people are health seekers from 18 countries who are giving their “all” to create wellness in their lives and to transform their spiritual, physical, emotional, mental health and their life conditions. Distance Reiki is a power-assist that, in some cases, has miraculous results.

If you are struggling and you want a bit of healing energy sent your way every day, please contact me and I will be thrilled to begin to Reiki you as soon as I get your request.
What a wonderful world we live in that we can remain faceless strangers online and join spirits to create miracles together through Distance Reiki.

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Suicide of Veterans

I heard that the world lost more vets from the Vietnam War to suicide than were lost during the war. That's a horrific statistic.

I can't promise that Reiki will change anyone's mind about taking their life, but maybe, just maybe, knowing that I will Distance Reiki, maybe knowing I know you and your life are worth my time, Reiki and prayers will help you get through to the better life you fought for.

If you ask, I will Reiki. At the time of contact I can let you know how Reiki can help.

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The Energy Rx: Reiki and Energy Medicine

Ask me about:

cancer,
migraines,
Gillian Barre,
Fibromyalsia,
chronic pain,
back pain,
broken bones,
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learning disabilities,
coma,
stalking,
negative energy connections,
stress,
depression,
addictions,
childhood trauma,
conception
Diseases are categorized by names. In Energy Medicine disease is negative energy that is stuck in the energy field that needs to be removed and replaced with high vibrating healthy energy. The good Reiki can do is not limited to the names above.
If you are here and you want help: Just ask...to keep your privacy, please use the email below.

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